2005/05/01

The ice-breaking opportunity came when accompany Fruit to her junior high school entrance examination, we didn't know there's an examination held on the day of " School introduction for parent ", we were told to bring our children to school; it's early, we need to be there by 8:30 am, I urge my wife to hurry up, she have to do her face / make up / hair for at least 2 hours, and there's no such a " I am ready " signal; I have to push her and warning her the time it up; this always cause quarrel and troble, there's no exception on Sat. morning. she forget to bring the fruit blanket which we suppose to send it to Mr. Wu as a gift, then she retune home picking it up while I was busy in listeing to the presentation, I was so angry, as I warned her not to go back, she ignor and doing it without noticing me , so I am really mad, the emotion burst out and we had a big fight; although the fight is gone now, but when posting this experience, my pulse in beating up and I am angry still; why not listen to me as we agree to do this ? I am really mad.

Fruit shed her tear when heard that there's an examination on the day of introduction, she complained about not been infromed by me or school and she didn't prepare anything for it. when the test is over, I chat with her and comfort her in a Father's touch, she is fine and we regain a family tie.

Sat. night, the YPO north Asis golf tournament, although I didn't play golf, however we were told to present at the dinner to show our hostipality; I went there on time, S. called from the airport and would like to have word with me in regard to the EZfly issue, so, I reserved seat for him, but we didn't talked a lot, to be honest, we don't even touch upon the real issue. sitting in the table with Korean / HK YPO er, I don't feel that I am belonging to them, cigar / wine / singing / gourment food; I have a question mark on what we we doing ? is this the spirit of YPO, or this is the extention of hostipaily or friendship? I don't know.

Finishing reading Elizabath Kubler-Rose's biography : The wheel of life; in the latter part of the book, the " middle mand between live and dead " and " After life " discussion come to me, I am not so comfortable about these 2 subject, as I respect a woman with great mind in the way she save the soul of the human and it's society by ones will and believe, but not through the power only a few people can recongised; I value people fighting to death not because there's a place after life where you can really rest in peace and all the pain in physical life will be gone forever. this is a good book relevetively speaking even I found some unfavorable crues.

change the plastice of my ping pong racket and do a 3 man's battle this morning, better performance than last Wed. last Wed. my winning point is zero, today, although I am not totally back to norman, but at least I sweat as much as other player.

Sound will go to Orchid Island tomorrow, this is the Forest School semester event, well. all the family member jearous about this great thing. he is lucky.

if Fruit successfuly pass the entrance examination and become the new student of TS high school ( which I belive it will come trun on May 10th ), the we have to prepare 500,000 NT for Sound and Fruit in a year, this is a big burdon for a family.

posted by Roger @ 5/01/2005 10:58:00 下午

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