2006/06/13

A drop of something

Celine share wiwth me her econutering with an old colleage back to the THINKTANK days, she is now woking in a NGO , a NGO for second generation of forienge immagrant from China - she come up with a campaign " Home letter - writing home ", associate with Retire Soliders' Association in Taiwan, it create an emormouse impact on the society, as this is a depressing topic, the issue hold the height to be recognise. so the book and the campaign become a talk-about amount elite / press and people who concerned. Celine share it with me, and I realized this is the DROP of working, if we are not sit in the same office, the dialoge won't happen, and the joy of working and sharing won't happen as well. I shall cherish this moment of truth, there's no good guy for good. there ain't no bad girl for good. think how to apprecaite the wisdom and heart from others. especially your partner.

Wife said she had a very bad haeadache last night, she said it never happen before, and it cause her to think something wrong with her body or something grow in her head, I told her not to over react, taking water from living room and having her swallo the Penadoid, it doesn't help in the beginning, then I use some pain relief gel to rumber her forhead, she feel better, then I realize there's no one can take other's pain unless he or she suffer / experience the same. even throught, the degree of pain won't be the same as everyone have his own torolence toward handling pain. I know I am a person lack of caring for others. the nature defeat on me. a back human natur of me. I should change, from bottom of my heart.

Sunday night, when brought family for the Papaya-Milk drink, we walked trought one street with dim light, and I found a homeless ( we guess ) laying down the belcony of one church, We have no idea whether he was drunk or sit, but it remind me of the book " Opening Skinner's Box " and the case of New York City Rape murder and the effect of " Difussion of responsibiliy ", without hesitation, my first time to dial 911, from my mobile , show the station the exact addree of the lying man. after finishing our milk drink, on our way back, he was gone, with the help of ambulance, or exile by the poice? we don't know.

E. managed to document John and Richard yesterday, this chat cause by the sudden pass away of P.Chang. met with Mrs. Chang and talk about things we will do after,she asked how long it will take, I said it might take 6 months, she is not confident about it and reply with a 12 months answer- this is exactly what I thought about. they will move to Shanghai. the only choice the family can take now..