2006/12/24

Big fight cotinue

The impact on the big fight with Fruit continue from last week, last week, the confrontation cause a very bad impact, we feel so upsat about her, not only complaint about not enough cloth, but to shout, yield and point finger to us ( her parent ) with F... word, how can we endure this bad attitude from your daughter, I am so disappointment, this week, when her mother pick up her from the school this Friday, I tried to be the negociator to comfort her and bring some rationale about why we can't agree with her requrest about buying new clothes --- she never fulfill her promise to the family or to herself before, why should parent to feed her with her basis value and materialism approach? I don't understand.

The big fight came up on Friday when i call her up to talk about it, she didn't response the first time, but to stay in my TV room watching TV, the second time I call her and inform the subject of the converstation : about her new clothes, she walked down to the living room, I explained to her only one suit allowed this time, she went mad and come up with F.. word to me agian, I was as upset, querrel after qurerrel , she went up to the second floor, lock herself in the bathroom and start to distrupt all the bathing equipment in the room, all the toilet paper , and the toilet lid was broke up by her violent, we didn't promote violent at home, how come she did it to her family, to her parent, her grad parent and her brother? we call her teacher for help, the follow day, her teacher Shih brought 2 of her best classmate to our house, tried to settle the case.

I am so disappointment, I give up already, in front of her teacher, wife have her to promise 3 very important message :
1. Never point finger to her family with dirty word.
2. Never disrupt house falicility and conduct violence to the family.
3. Whenever her request can't be fulfill by parent, never turn to her grand parent ( there are cases when her grand father can't satisfy her need, she start with F. word to him )

we will hide away when she turn to 18, because she is the devil to the family. we must escape.