this afternoon were the last section for the 4 segment classes, there wern't any performacne scheduled for parent presumely, but when sending him for the last section, I saw a poster in front of the glass door notify the parent about the 15 minutes of the unoffical presentaion done by the kids. we were there on time, the teaching advise the parent this is not a performance but to take a glace of how our kids learn to express their feeling by drama training, maybe a alternative way to release their emotion, the puppy show was how they craft it.
when the performance is over, a mother approach me and asked if we were the parent of Sound and told us the abnormal behavior he did for the last 2 days, and even hurt one of the teacher's eye when release his anger by throwing object to the teacher; we were shocked again, we didn't know that his behavior is getting worst and didn't have a chance to close observe his interaction with other children and the environment sourrended by him; to find out the truth, I talked to the prime teacher about Sound, she had the same observation as we did, and tell us the behavior pattern of Sound -- easily arose by othere, try to be the winner in all the games, when stir by other kids , his response is much stonger than others and my peform violence, then when the adult tried to control his temper to prevent bigger damage, he will turn his anger to other objective and even holding his fish tight and put his face in red; we share some experience by exchange with the teacher's professionism; the teacher Miss Ma is kind enough to leave our phone number and promise to contact my wife for further discussion; this broke our heart again; we know he is a trouble for a very long time, we don't sure about his ADCD symdrome and we know his charter will bring him to a terrible future and my lead to a short life due to some querrel and fights with others; we are prepared for the worst, but how to turn this potential disastar around ? we don't have a clue, tried to put him in a private school, but he don't like it, tried to move him to an experimental school, but we are afraid this may increase his adopness to the society; I am thinking of finding a good children sphcatrist to diogose Sound againg and granding us the useful solution for his growth, or join some parent growth group to find the answer from the experience pool; we know it's wrong to beat or yiell him when those mis-havior happened, and we understand it take decent time and efforts to let him know the concequence or result may bring a never mended regret in life; but he can't help to control, he is too emotional ; as I told meself earlier this year, if the primary school period , we don't see an improvement to his behavior or finding a way to control his temper, I shall devoted myself to this kid as much as possible, this is not for nurture him to a great person, but to avoid someone else been hurt by him; even I need to quit my job and concentrate on educating him, the effort can't be saved. I know my wife have give up all the means to solve this headache.
tasting the blue mountain coffee in our of the local coffee shop, this shop existed for 20 years and they brew coffee bean themselves, we've been stay in the same district for 2 decade and make it happen today,. I like the way they decorate this shop, a nice place to talk, enjoy good coffee or killing time by reading a good book, I did the later this morning with my wife and beging my reading with " Monk and the riddle ", a gife from C. after I obtain my degree of MBA.
posted by Roger @ 8/15/2004 07:22:00 下午
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