True Love Part 2
The chapter 2 continue today at lunch, I knew how curiosus C. is and how she is interested to know the dinner last night, as this is a very itimate and private feeling, I had to admit that I should not disclosed it to anyone include C. however, I can't help to share everything with her. she listened with joy, with fun and laugh sometimes, probabely this is because of my interpretation and my way of deliveing the content. or I am in a way to please her, I jump into the conclusion first , which is : Number one, I am not the Mr. wright YP described last night, then I graduately told her how things developed last night , and the thing between persisitance and compromise.
There's flesh and she told me a very big surprise and advise me not to shock, she said, if she divoice one day, it won't hurt our relationship in working, and this is defenitely not cause by me or the company we established. but in a way, when doing the CSR, when she got the chance to look at herself naked, she found that she can't lay to herself, she must ture to herself and the marriage is a strategy and it can't be hide anymore, she once thought marriage is a good way to learn how to love someone, however, it failed, she didn't love her husband so much, this is something drag me to a status of nervouse. Family is the camoflag for working, working is the umbrella to cover every day life. Now , thing is develop and evoluted to a nowhere land.
Now, I am a man who keep 2 women's deep secret in life, how can I bring it back to reality? CSR -Lichun is focus on human, because of human, objective and things develop after, it differ from other business inititaive, which is to identify a goal - a measurement in achieving something, then approch the people involved or related to it. think first and think next demostrate the difference in life. we had a lunch at a fake Shinchan restaurant., we talked and we shared. we promise to have a casure lunch, not a business lunch today.
With Kou at Hui Liu is quite an interesting session, retiring from army, but he is a true talent who can understand what's CSR and the strategic intent. we spend more than 2 hours together and I run into Rose at the tea house. .. A very intersting encountering.
Mark asked me to join the Alasha trip and inform me the arrangement was made in good hand, I change my schedule and reply with an OK, over the telephone, he said that he will kiss and hug me when seeing me, I can't forget what S.S warmed me, he is a man in high-low sensation. I should take this good advise from ss.
Adam spend 40 millions NT for his AV room / equipment - a professional manager proud of this maga spending and exgazatrate in public, how will people perceive this message ? music business is a good business or it a business to get rich quick? value problem, big problem.
I am thinking of giving Kelvin a call or see him in HK one day...
True Love
We spend 5 hours to debate on this gesture, using out all the mataphore and philosophy, in order to well present the Feeling inside, I am a good listerner and a perfect mirrow to her, she express her emotion more and more clear, and then, the answer came up - I am not the Mr. right, thanks God, to help a lady who just divoice and in the grief of losing her best love - well in mental statue in stead of any physical status, I am a soul mate , so to speak to be the good listener, a friend even important than a sycatirst. only 2 of us, after dinner, we found a warm house cofe' next where she stayed last night, we talk and talk unitl she told me : You looks tired. this is the fatile and exhaust night of the listeing, I was back to my instinct feeling. feel people, respone with turst feeling, she told me this is the first time and I am the first person she reveal her true love to, a never forget love happend on her way to Europe, 2 months befor she decided to divoice.
The Looking for Chinese V2.o was an interesting encounter to, Celine met her formar boy friend - well, I guest, Haha, It's not an ebarramce situration to me, but the conversation and discussion getting stagnat, Ben don't want to erase his idea of set up NGO for the project, Celine is too strong in presenting her idea and action on the doucmentary project. Hay, this is human instint, don't release your know how to potential parner or -- the worst competitor.
Coffee with S.F Ma. I finally provide him a 1.000.000 credit line for 15 days no interest allowance, I hope he can fell relief a little bit. he is so good in his taste of music, this is what I can do. and what I want to do.
Buy one oil painting together after the curry lunch. the morning session with Adam is good but weird, how can a professonal manager don't hesitate to tell me his AV room spend more than 40 millions. where he earned those foutune?
Ben is so nice to provide his insigh for our company, a good fellow now and should be in near future.
Mini Forum and Himalaya Foundation
Busy can't really explain what I am been through now. I am too fragmet to digest what's been done these days, maybe a bulletin board will best suit to what I am doing these days. now I have to back dated and tried my memory.
This afternoon, attending the first CSR seminar arranged by Himalaya foundation. Mr. Chiang is so kind to put me next to him and introduce me to all the attendee, expecially the host of the semina - former President of NTU. Mr. Sun. he is so knowledge in convery the correct message about CSR, I did know where the originality of CSR came from : 1965 from India, I know a few people in this field and learn a few during the session, cheking some future partner and some future competitor - well, this is the term I borrow from the world of commercial, people compete for doing good is not a bad thing, right?
First project came down by Lichun succefully launch in the afternoon as well, the press event with CHT Foundation. I was occupied at the Himalaya semenar.
The first movie in 2 months. well, I break the record, I decided to skip the hot spring and go to the moives with wife, to recap the flavor of old days a bit, this is a must, we went for the " Firewall ", not bad an action movie and I came up with a funny assumption, which : You better nice to your secretary.
Yesterday, Mini Forum - all the brother came except AJ, Ching Hung is a good resource, after Sidney, this is the second doctor I introduced, I am thinking to invite a Mental expert for next gathering, wife preparing it so decently, it's a 90 points event I guest.
Fruit leave home
It was Friday night, the big quarrl erupt between Fruit and us, the whole family, she honesty told us there's no love in the family, or to put it a hard way, she hate to see us , even only on the weekend. she even accuse me a child sexual harresmenent when she was only in primary school level 4; I was shocked and so disappointed, to ped her when she was such a little girl? I don't even know when it happen and how ofent I touch her body? this is really a sad outcome,. her mother was so upsat and decide to send her away to her grandmothers' house, so, yesterday, when I took Sound to the mordern Shao-ling dance show, wife sent her to her grand mother's house, so, I won't see her for some time. I am a little bit sad, and I wish her can change her mindset, turn to a mature grown up - I can understand the rebel in juvillen , and I am a father with open mind. see what happen, I can't really control the development.
A little lay back in doing big project / plan and proposal, as the ecounter with 88 in Tokyo with Mr. Wei is a very good beginning, I should keep the ball rolling and plan my next trip in 2 weeks , to deliver a rough plan, and to take this opportunity to see Yamamoto-san, invite his to the Chef for farewell, he is leaving by end of March, it will ink the last days of So-net. the orinigal line up except from A. were all gone.
A long meeting / chat with C. on Sat. at the Yu-lang park, having Ding Tai Fung for breakfast, we then talk and go over all the project on time, I finally understand the " Working Situration " is THE absolutly stable relations, it can be tighten then other relationship, I now appreciate her wisdom to make it happen this way. a perfect way.
I must complet all the task without fail, as this is my own company, I can't rely on others.
