if I have 2 body
everthing conjunced at the same time the same place, I am fully mess up with the appointment today, find a breakfast slot to explain to Willima what I know, he is matue enough to bear my difficulity, however a grown up like him, do have his own goal in life, don't need to waste time in this blur and fuzzy situation, color give me a bad color this morning when I walked in the temperory Fon office, she is too young to know everything, never mind and never too concern, this is not what I can do about.
Willima have his own choice in life and I respect his determination in this, had a not so great conversation with wife this morning before breakfast with William, she challenge about my spending too much time on YPO and forget my own business, this is so difficult to explain. I am not mad about this, but how to allocate time perfectly is what I should learn as well,can't tell Canday we are " Can say No ", but always breach what we are preaching.
C. is in great depression, I can sense and introduce her to Sean, I was invited to the session althorug I was reluctant to hear everything, She need a lot of support and as a forum member, I am willing to do so. really.
18th anniversry and stand by CEO
Today, Sep. 28, marked my 18th wedding anniverrally and the 6th years old house celebration; it was 18 years ago, after my 4 years relationship with Mailing, We got married, under the blesing of H. Han - how coincetanlly that I am now using his fundation as the shelter for incubation my CSR business. and it was 6 years ago, one week after the 921 earthquake, we found the house we love and bought it beyond our fininaical capability. and this is my 888 post to blog, another long tail for my habbit in blogging.
Martin came the second time to Taipei, I spend more time with him and learn a great deal of how to " build the bubble " he kept saying that he is a perfect " Start up CEO ", To me, it imply a " to be sold " sign to the potential buyer, aj hijack him to every important session, and to show off / deomostrate his musule in Taiwan, this is before any JV discussion. Professor Kung emphisis on how to build a high value position for Taiwan and to get rid of the OEM / ODM fortune. Marin's manuver his foundation as a tool to express his commercial approach is so impressive, and to AJ, I don't know, I can only put on one hat.
The Alex came the second time for the continue discussion of JV. again, he was hijacked by Accton, but I have no emotion this time, as I have no selfish thinking in mind, my clear mind bring me to a much clear picture, how the investor's interest conflict with operator's interest, and how a HQ value agianst a local jv's interest. I am so amazed by the excellent negociation tactic perform by Joshphe, this is a great lesson that I would never learn in 10 years, I am so happy to sit beside them, without wearing any hat, but to learn and think how to be a perfect negociate, the finding is amazing : There's no such a win-win negociation in the commercial world and you can only put your counter part in a hard place, to turn a " enemy to be " attitude, this is so impressive.
Antoher learning if from Martin, how he can send out a proposal of selling his pet company for a sky high price - 500 millions by package to a 3 billions deal with CHT, only over one dinner and only for a very short of encourting, every thing had its price, even your soul, this is another shock to me, really. I really apprecaite AJ who open his heart to me and have me sneak in the never know area and to grow by witness the things devleopment.
for me, a Stand by CEO, compare with MARTIN, to quote what my wife said to aj ( another marical is what she did, called aj without telling me in advance, for point out 3 major issues )- I will never betray my friend. this is a delimna ahead of me, it keep me away from set up independent company for Fon in Taiwan and it keep me in a very blur situaaiton and may break my promise to the people I already recruit to operat FON, a Stand By CEO, seeing the opportunity slip away, but only can take a sigsht on it.
Forum helps a little bit, I need to have them to examine my product and service, is this a real world or a blur one ? woman trade with virginlity, man trade with integrity, is this true? the story of Wang Shing is another good lesson to me. he hlep a great deal in placing resouce at Ankok Wak, the coming couple's outing, I am going to check the site on Sat.
New forum is great, I spot the problem of Candy and willing to help her overcome what's ahead of her, I will her well.
Coco and Mama lee warm my heart and make my day, I don't know if the management company will turn to reality, but I am hoping for the best and as I learn from AJ and the negoicaiton in building a bubble company, I should know how to sturctue a win only me scenario, but as Celine challenge me : I have a good intention, but don't have a good believe, I don't know, I don't really know.
Willim is in great pain to suffer the uncertainly for the last week, he is too young to handle this, Jay is an ideal person to support, I wish everything can turn out great, but csr / web 2.0 / non profit - for profit mixture will be the strengh in the future, I should have Celine to discover more for me, in depth.
I love shy kick apple, the skp punch local band, I really think they will make a perfect combination with coco, on the concert of Oct. 28, I did.
